This is so true! 
It is so sad when you write and post how you feel, or you may not write anything and keep inside how you feel going through so much, and some of the people you know cannot take the time to read or find out how you are once in a while, and try to lift your spirit up, like I try to do with them... 

Personally I do not ask for material stuff at all, but spiritual and moral support, means a lot to me.